A Better Understanding of Our Common Humanity

It is in moments of sorrow is when our human differences become negligible

Michael "Mick" Bisignani
7 min readJan 31, 2024
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The loss of a loved one is an experience that defines, shapes and informs who and what we are, one of those inescapable events and realities encountered along the journey of life, a traumatically painful milestone that we encounter along navigating uneven meanders of the river of our existence.

It is in times such as these that life truly feels like a series of roll coaster rides, the kind that shake you, scare you cold. We recognize that life is a series of moments of heartbreak, filled with sharp, inconvenient pangs of mourning, triggered by the most banal of thoughts, firing at you when you least expect. But there is a lot to learn from these darker times of the human condition. And not all of these lessons are as dark as one would think.

What becomes clear, regardless of our faith tradition, and of how we ultimately practice our religious beliefs, is the fact that deep down inside, we are all so similar in our humanity, in our sensitivities and reactions in times of crisis. This common essence becomes so apparent when we pray, reflect, and cry with sorrow and heart felt compassion together with our Jewish, Hindu, Muslim and Christian brothers and sisters.

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Michael "Mick" Bisignani

Professional Technologist, Aspiring Food Celebrity. Catholic spreading messages of Empathy and Equality.